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Dear Herry: At a dinner last night I found myself recounting those amazing years I spent knowing Horst and Nicholas in Oyster Bay. There's a Nor'easter battering Manhattan, so things are quiet so I thought I'd see what Professor Google had to say . . . and that's how I found you. I've tried to respond through your website, but I couldn't get past Outlook Explorer, so am sending this GMail to GMail. I had taken a small getaway cottage in Locust Valley and met them at a party given by flower designer Barry Ferguson. "Dear Boy," said Nicholas at some point, "you don't know a soul out here. Come to Sunday lunch tomorrow." And that's how I met Greta Garbo. So began three years or so of many chatty dinners -- sometimes at home, other times at Burt Bachach's and often at a favorite joint called Wall's Wharf in Bayville right on Long Island Sound. I don't recall how many dinners there were, but I'm thinking it was, gulp...

Tony and Marjorie Powell Edwards at Novington Manor with Annette and Patrick and Pat Tetley Marjorie and Tony Powell Edwards lived at Novington Manor , Plumpton, Near Lewes, East Sussex. The Powell Edwards family had owned the estate since 1885. On 15 October 1946 Captain Ivor Howell Powell-Edwards, known as Tony, who was born in 1909, married Marjorie Raphael of the Raphael banking family. He had previously married Vivien Nicoll in 1933 and had two daughters with her. He died in the Brighton area on 30 September 1979 aged 70. Like his father he was a soldier. He served in the Irish Guards from 1928 to 1932. He retired in 1932 as a Second Lieutenant. Then he went on to the Reserve Officers list and was promoted to Major. In WWII he served in Norway, North Africa and Italy. He was wounded twice. In 1956 Marjorie organised dances for her two step-daughters; Antonia who married Ian Joicy Dickinson in 1957, and Virgina who married Alec William Gordon in 1960 (ref: The Times). Tony’s father...

Herry and Piers with Patrick in the orchard at Stocks c.1955 with Danny the spaniel For the first ten / twelve years I doubt that I paid much attention to what I was wearing. Early photos show me in shorts, and we certainly wore shorts at St Ronan's (1953-1958), though I think that we may have been allowed into long trousers as we turned twelve. I can remember my delight, though, on getting my first pair of proper football boots - made by Adidas - instead of the heavy round-toed boots that we wore in those days. But 'PT' shoes were still plain white plimsoles and we had to wear a grey felt 'squasher' hat outside in summer and Airtex shirts. I became more interested in clothes when at Winchester (1958 - 1964) where the early fashion was for 'drain-pipe' trousers. I had mine taken in to a ridiculous 13". I can also remember getting green and black check jacket and some 'oxblood' shoes at Basticks, the best of the local high-street shops (...

Setting off on a career was different in the 60s, and the concept only applied to men. When the boys left their (single-sex public) schools, one or two went to university, but most did not. Those with connections to the land went to Cirencester (like my brother Fuff ) while others joined their father's businesses ( Nick Duke and James Duke and Sons ) or followed their father into the navy ( Johnny Cooke ). One started his own successful fishing business ( Ian Hay and The Rod Box ) and another became a restaurateur ( Charlie Skipwith and Cobbetts). School friends at Winchester were all destined either for the City, the services or one of the professions - and mostly went to university first, not to learn anything in particular, but to have a good time. Oxford was favoured because of the school's links with New College. Interestingly, absolutely no one went into the sciences, manufacturing or engineering, though one or two brave souls went into IBM. None of the girls went to u...

Miss VM (Violetta Maria) Sprules was a teacher at one of the first secretarial schools in London and had as her student, Miss Aristea Glyka (born 1914), who had been educated on the continent and spoke both French and German. When in 1933 Miss Sprules decided to set up on her own, she invited Miss Glyka to join her and they began a secretarial college teaching typing and shorthand. The first school was in Victoria and had five pupils. During the war they evacuated to Oxford and the school had its premises first in an old rectory and then in The Carfax. The school became too large for their Oxford premises and when the lease came up for renewal in the 1960s they decided to move to Winchester because it had a similar 'college' atmosphere. The Barclays Bank building had just been built and they moved to the second and third floors of the chambers above the bank and Ms Iris Rigg and Mrs Eileen Sealey joined them, the school remaining there before moving to Northgate in 1987 when...

Some the family's photo albums are on Flickr and this page provides an index to them 1960s - Prue's 1960s photos 1970 - Bordeaux Accompanying Charlie and Lucie to the boat to Australia 1975 - Nick's Wedding to Jay Jay at Wickham Church 7th June 1975 1975 - Harvestgate 1975 - Danegate and St Ronan's 1975 - Windlesham Manor July 1975 1975 - Holiday in France with the Martins and Hays Aug-Sept 1975 1975 - Penny and Peter Crittle at Harvestgate August 1975 1978 - March - August Mostly at Harvestgate 1980 - La Lointaigne, Roquebrune with Mel and Beatrice and the Allez's 1980 - Castell Howell - with Annie Sept 1980 1989 - Jess's Wedding Return to Archive Index Return to Harvestgate Farm

05.53 Wake and rise almost immediately. Ayako wakes too and worries about the cats. It's 12C outside and they come inside as soon as the front door is opened. Koko sleeps on unaware on the floor beside Ayako even as Cecil creeps into the bedroom. He slips up onto the bed and curls up beside Ayako. She's happy and murmurs as she goes back to sleep. 05.55 Open the curtains and make coffee. Fill Koko's water bowl. Bring the coffee back to my study and sit quietly. Pranayama. Prayers of thanks to Baba for me, my family and friends, and requests for help (and today thanks for having helped) those who are ill or suffering. Several Gayatri Mantras. Loka Samasta Sukino Bhavantu. 06.09 Finish prayers and then coffee. Start laptop up (which has been in sleep mode; it's rarely turned off.) Determine to write a day's journal. Watch the light come up (sunrise today is 06.08 according to the iPhone. Sunset at 19.58. The glass is high: 1038). The sun gilds the magnolia lea...